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Here’s an example of a common question, one that even stomps presidential candidates, teachers, and reporters.

QUESTION:
When do I use I, me, or myself?

ANSWER: 
Using “I”
Use Subject Pronouns, I, he, she, you, we, they, who to name the Subject of a Verb:
  • Joan and I attended the meeting.
  • Philip and he wrote the report.
  • I was given the job of calling the client.
Use Subject Pronouns to complete the Linking Verb To Be: am, are, is was, were
  • The president is he.
  • The winners were Alex and she.
  • The new administrators are Juanita and I.
  • HINT: the grammatically correct response when someone asks for you on the phone is:  This is she [or he]. It is I.
  • Explanation: When you use the verb “to be,” the subject pronoun at the end of the sentence re-names the sentence subject; therefore, you must use a subject pronoun.
 
Using “me”
Use Object Pronouns, me, him, her, you, us, them, whom to complete Active Verbs and Prepositional Phrases.
  • Please give Chris and her ride to the office.
  • Always ask me for directions.
  • Show me the money.
  • Would you please tell me where to store this equipment?
  • These reports are for Pat and him.
  • This secret is just between you and me.
  • I’ve sent the documentation to Fred and him.
  • Is this for you and me?
  • Please come to the meeting with Sally and me.
 
Using “myself”
Use reflexive pronouns --myself, himself, herself, yourself, ourselves, themselves--  to reflect back to the person [or people] who performed the action.
  • I did that myself.
  • I did that by myself.
  • The programmers finished the task themselves.
  • We did that job ourselves.
 
Combination
  • On behalf of my team and me, I’d like to welcome you to the meeting.
    [prepositional phrase completer and subject of a verb]
  • As for me, I’d rather be in Philadelphia.
    [prepositional phrase completer and subject of a verb]
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